Mormonism is a religion that's as manipulative as it is comforting. Which is the highest place in heaven aka celestial kingdom. I've been dating my girl for 5 years and we have just broke up because she told me she likes someone else but she say she still loves me I have been married for 8 months, my husband is starting his training in orthopaedics Never imagined my life will be like this The 3 years we were together prior marriage when he was an intern were not like this at all I read all the comments and I can see there no much hope for things to improve Constant absences, constants arguments, I have to make myself available when he is available, I am an architect, I have a demanding job myself, but still beings doctor seems to be a lot more important than my career. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. He may never want anything to do with Mormons or the church again. I was off travelling the world when I met and fell madly in love with a deployed Marine. Remember she will only try to convert you because she thinks it is in your best interest. And for mormons, the goal is always a temple marriage and a marriage for the eternities.
For the first time in my life, at age twenty-seven, I am in a relationship that is good and loving and serious enough that I believe it may lead to marriage. Because if you can't live and let live, you both need to dive deep into this stuff and figure out what you believe and want in your life. December 19, OK, you're off the hook, mine was in the 70's too, but I hadn't been to CA by then. I mean, there was no way it could be worse than intern year. I do try to send little texts or call when I have time but not as much as he'd like. I would bet this is exactly what she is thinking about you, which is why she is willing to have a relationship with you aren't a Mormon. This woman has already given two full years fully devoted to the institution without question. If someone isn't dying then it is unlikely to be important. In the meantime, she will probably view you as being less than a Mormon man who is a faithful priesthood holder. Be specific every time you ask.
Hire out as many household chores as you can afford housekeeping, lawn care etc. If you are feeling neglected, then tell him so. And the thought of being a 'single mom' if we have kids. At 30, you just give up.
If she won't reason with your investigation of the church, nope on out and go on your merry way. My youngest starts Kindergarten next fall. I'm so sorry to hear this. But those days may be gone. This man basically tells you in a simple way within 6 minutes. I have been married to a doctor for 25 years. Somehow snow days when everyone else is off, I feel like my husband is the only one working I know there are many but it is very hard. You are atheist and that's not changing. If you aren't sealed together, say good-bye for eternity. I know in terms of so many things as well as financial stability choosing another path is very uncertain, we would also have the student loans we would have to pay back.
