Take your date to a club with loud music and an open bar, or an R-rated or violent movie, and the prospects of it going well are daunting. In the interfaith marriages that work where one is LDS and the other is not religious, it only works out when the LDS partner is not fully a believer anymore. Mormonism is fundamental to my religious beliefs and my personal sense of identity, and it is the community that I identify with most strongly. I know a non-Mormon guy who married a Mormon woman and has kept her beautiful and desirable, by encouraging her religious involvement, even though he avoided Mormonism himself. If this is the case, she definitely can be reprogrammed and awakened. If you do attend parties like that, expect her to drink 7-Up and volunteer as the designated driver, and to be completely repulsed if you drink too much. I am a non Mormon.
He is also a bit too neat. Chances are you can't though. A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment. There are such things as perfect loving families though. If you want to go against that trend, one of you will almost certainly change perspective. He too goes to the vacation house a lot to take care of the property and the boat on most weekends he is not on call, and it has been something I have been made to accept. Also, I know a bunch of Mormons that say they are, but don't act like it. She will probably feel persecuted and attacked if you try. As a man who married a non-Mormon woman, my story has a slightly different view point, but it comes down to essentially the same principles. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise.
But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. On weekends he likes to go out and get away from medicine usually at a bar and although I'm with him I'm not with the real true version of him. When I do open up to one or two close female family member, they often tell me that their husbands are equally unavailable and I should not complaint. Would I have changed the course of my life. That would only encourage her to give up other standards that really are serious and to become like the typical Western degenerate. These were some tips to keep in mind when dating a Mormon guy or girl. I have been married to a doc for 31 years and just found out about an "emotional affair" that went on for 15 years she is a nurse. The ones who already had concerns start questioning. I understand your internal conflict completely and my heart goes out to you. Do any of your husbands drink alot of wine.
But I'm trying to determine how much of that behavior is truly down to his profession, and how much of it is him not being very into me or just selfish and unwilling to compromise even if that selfishness is a byproduct of his residency, and not how he would be in other circumstances. If you do manage to break her away from the church, her family will be there to continue sowing doubt. A lot of people will tell you to run but if she is in her late 20s most Mormon guys her age are married. Some day he hopes to make it to Romania and settle down. Of course she won't want to watch something that in her mind attacks her religion. Let her go right now then. I am just starting to get a little panicky and upset about this the more I think about it.