For me this has been an opportunity to increase my love, tolerance, compassion and acceptance. If you are feeling neglected, then tell him so. Thank you for this web site blog-I have enjoyed reading these similiar experiences of ladies married to physicians or soon to be physicians. I have been understanding of the demands of his career for many years, but I have come to realized that I'm not happy living this way. She has to come to the realization that the church may not be infallible, it can't be forced on her or proven to her.
With such high standards of perfection, Mormon girls want a man who validates their efforts and confidently provides directionвa man who expects them to be beautiful. I worry it will only be worse when the kids grow older. Money is not everything although the ex certainly has her share. I would like to know if this is normal. My husband has gone from proselytizing and thinking he knows it all to a real spiritual seeker, albeit with a strong testimony in the church.
Until you do he's a free agent and in high demand. She seems to be ok with that, and wants to continue our relationship, and also talks about wanting marriage and children, and raising those children to be mormon like her even if I'm not religious. Are you going to keep the sabbath holy as a family, or is he going to take the kids out for pizza after church, leaving you home to observe alone. The church is really good at putting on a happy, wholesome face to show the world, but if you look behind the curtain, you see that it's a despicable cult.
Other lazy Mormon girls turn feminist, many thousands of them. Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned. They require a healthy dose of flexibility, nontraditional expectations, and teamwork You aren't always gonna have a Christmas etc I can understand it would be hard to understand the cues you are getting if you have no basis for that lifestyle, but really think it over. Still, I would be interested to hear your perspective and that of your readers. They will teach the boys that masturbation is evil, which will cause most boys to lie about it and feel deep shame and guilt. I'm sorry, but I don't pity you all. Because she will think that all of a sudden she is going to hell for being human, that's mormon sexual repression. I am running errands related to school or the volunteer work I do or just plain running this house I would love to meet up at the gym ladies. Try to have a date night once a week and when your Dr Spouse has time off go somewhere.
