I realize I rambled a bit and may not have answered all your questions; feel free to ask anything else you want to know. Anyway, you got yourself a treasure. Each time, I start to make friends and have to leave them and move. The woman gets fidgety after three days on vacation. Where does that leave me. To answer your question: Even when he does, everything is on his terms. Also not one Nickel will be tithed out of any shared funds.
It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them. I have been pretty much a single mother most of that time. So far I have found it is a day to day thing. Just as secular marriages have problems, so do temple marriages.
Their values and the values of popular western culture are wildly disparate, which can be tough for them to navigate early in life. A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment. Today, at my ward sacrament meeting, in the back section of the chapel where I was sitting, all the women except one were Mormon wives in interfaith families.
Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised. He will have to be okay with being thought not good enough to help in circumstances in which you believe that priesthood power is needed. It wouldn't be as often as from someone with an ordinary job and schedule, but it would happen.